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ĐÁM CƯỚI LÀ CỦA BẠN! - TIN TỨC CƯỚI HỎI | TTCH

ĐÁM CƯỚI LÀ CỦA BẠN!

Bạn Cưới, tức Đám Cưới đó là của bạn. Một cách rất nghiêm túc: Gởi tác giả của bài “Tôi không thích Tiệc Cưới truyền thống”. đám cưới

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Chào bạn, tôi đọc được bài tâm sự của bạn, và tôi hơi bức xúc vì sự nhu nhược của bạn (xin lỗi vì cách dùng từ hơi nặng nề, nhưng tôi không biết diễn tả sao nữa về thái độ của bạn)

Đám Cưới là của bạn!!! đám cưới

Đám Cưới rõ ràng là của bạn mà, là hai bạn cưới nhau mà! Mục đích của Đám Cưới là đánh dấu một chương mới trong cuộc đời, khi hai bạn cùng về một nhà! Vậy thì tất cả những yếu tố quyết định việc tổ chức Đám Cưới nên là do tự ý hai bạn chứ?

Trước đây chúng tôi cũng từng băn khoăn như bạn, thậm chí có ý định dắt nhau đi… trốn để làm Đám Cưới theo ý mình. Nhưng không có ba mẹ thì Đám Cưới cũng mất ý nghĩa, nên chúng tôi đã hành động theo cách “người lớn”, tức là cố gắng thuyết phục, cũng gian nan khổ sở lắm. Các cụ lớn tuổi nên khó tính mà. Cuối cùng, chúng tôi tung chiêu “thôi thì khỏi làm Đám Cưới, chỉ cần đăng ký kết hôn là đủ” rồi ba mẹ hai bên cũng xuôi. “Đất không chịu trời thì trời phải chịu đất”. Các cụ còn trọng thể diện, theo kiểu tư tưởng truyền thống thì làm sao có chuyện không tổ chức Đám Cưới được?

Đám Cưới của chúng tôi đã được lược bớt số khách mời của ba mẹ (họ đồng ý với tôi là chỉ mời những người tôi đã từng gặp qua) nên không gian buổi tiệc cũng đầm ấm hơn.

Tôi nghĩ, ba mẹ nói cứng vậy thôi, chứ ai mà không thương con!

Hay là, để chiều ý song thân, bạn có thể cân nhắc việc tổ chức hai buổi tiệc xem sao? Một buổi tiệc dành cho họ hàng và bạn bè của ba mẹ, sẽ do ba mẹ quyết định, bạn chỉ cần… có mặt thôi. Dẫu sao ba mẹ cũng muốn thể hiện niềm vui khi con mình tìm được ý trung nhân. Một buổi tiệc khác, nếu bạn thích, có thể rủ bạn bè cùng đi dã ngoại ra ngoại thành, hoặc đâu đó gần gần để cùng chung vui tự do tự tại?

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Picnic wedding – Tiệc Cưới dã ngoại.

Tôi mong bạn hãy can đảm “vùng lên” đấu tranh tư tưởng với ba mẹ vì hạnh phúc của mình. Bạn sẽ không muốn mệt rã rời sau Tiệc Cưới theo kiểu truyền thống cứng nhắc mà rườm rà đâu, nên đừng “thỏa hiệp” dễ dàng nha.

Cố lên bạn, chúc bạn may mắn!

B. Anh

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