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“NẾU KHÔNG PHẢI “NGƯỜI ẤY”, SẼ KHÔNG LÀ AI KHÁC NỮA”…

“NẾU KHÔNG PHẢI “NGƯỜI ẤY”, SẼ KHÔNG LÀ AI KHÁC NỮA”…

Một ngày tôi hỏi cô: vì sao hai người lại có thể gắn bó với nhau lâu dài như vậy mà không có dấu hiệu tan vỡ? Cô bảo, chả biết nữa, có người trên đời cho mình cảm giác như vậy đó “nếu không phải người ấy, sẽ không là ai khác nữa”…

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Tình yêu của bạn tôi cũng đã trải qua nhiều trắc trở, từ gia đình ngăn cản, đến yêu xa, những cám dỗ khác vây quanh… Xa về khoảng cách địa lý, khi một người đi du học; xa cả về tinh thần, lúc ra trường mỗi người một ngả… Tưởng chừng đoạn đường đời đi chung chỉ được đến đấy thôi.

Thế nên tôi tin duyên phận, và cả “nhân định” nữa. Yêu nhau, họ nắm tay cùng vượt qua mọi khó khăn. Họ tính chuyện tương lai, làm cách nào để gần lại bên nhau… Mọi nỗ lực suốt nhiều năm trời cuối cùng cũng được đền đáp. Hai người giờ đang bên nhau ở phương trời ấy, đã có thể cùng tận hưởng những buổi hẹn hò, những chuyến đi chơi hạnh phúc…

Họ vẫn là những người trẻ đang xây đắp tương lai, nhưng họ đã luôn xác định trong tương lai của mình sẽ có sự hiện diện của đối phương rồi cùng nhau cố gắng…Họ biết, nếu một ngày có tổ chức Đám Cưới, người bạn đời chắc chắn sẽ là “người ấy”, người đang cùng nắm tay.

Tôi tin vào những tình yêu như thế!

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Một ngày tôi hỏi cô: vì sao hai người lại có thể gắn bó với nhau lâu dài thế mà không có dấu hiệu tan vỡ? Cô bảo, chả biết nữa, có người trên đời cho mình cảm giác như vậy đó “nếu không phải người ấy, sẽ không là ai khác nữa”…

Vì sao là “người ấy”?
Vì “người ấy” luôn hiểu rõ nhất ngõ ngách tâm tư của ta…
Vì “người ấy” luôn ủng hộ những ước mơ của ta…
Vì “người ấy” luôn là bờ vai vững chắc để ta nương tựa…
Vì “người ấy” luôn ở đó vì ta, dù bất cứ chuyện gì xảy ra…
Vì “người ấy” luôn muốn cùng ta xây dựng tương lai chung…

Cho nên, “nếu không là “người ấy”, sẽ không là ai khác nữa”…

Phúc Bình

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